2016/07/28

5 REASONS WHY HAVING BIG BOOBS SUCK

Hello you bunch of lovely people on the other side of the screen

Today I wanted to share something personal with you, something
that I've been struggling with since 6th grade. You know, puberty
brings up so many changes in your body and the way you see yourself.
I'm still not comfortable in my own body and my self-esteem is pretty
freaking low because of this, but I have settled. I have realised that
these are the cards I was given in life and there's not much to do about
it if I don't win in lottery or something. Chances for that? Oh, one in a million.
So yes, as you can see from the title, I've got big boobs, breasts,
titties or whatever you like to call those. Now I'm sharing 5 reasons
with you why having ones really does suck. I mean really.
It's everyday battling.
Just remember, these are all my opinions based on my own experiences
- there's bunch of women who have big breasts and they're enjoying them.
They really like them and feel comfortable in their own bodies. I'm also
not mocking anyone who wants bigger boobs, I'm just here talking about
my organic real life boobs that I got on 6th grade for some random genetic
reasons. I mean, there's not this large boobs like anyone in our family so
why do I have to have ones?
Okay, let's cut the crap and get to the point.



#1 THERE'S NOT A THING CALLED "SEXY LINGERIE"

If you want comfortable bra or bikini, go grandma or go home. At least
here in Finland. There's not much options for large breasted women to
choose if they want some sexy lingerie.
I mean, how amazing it would be just to walk to H&M and buy sweet,
lovely and cute bra - then wonder and look at how cute and adorable
those D-cups are and go home feeling awful about yourself.
That's kind of my secret hobby.

#2 FINDING THE PERCECT SIZE

I was also on a search for bikinis on the other day with my little sister
and every single shop that I went, sizes ended to D-cup. Oh, and when
I actually found a cup that matched my boobs - circle was so huge that
there would fit two or three of me.
I mean, not only large women have large boobs. It's such a pain in the
ass to be small and have big boobs.
Oh, and when you really do find a perfect round, cup is too small. I've
seen two many bra-mistakes with people and with my little sister so I
feel comfortable to say that if you can't really find a size that fits you,
go home and try again later.

#3 TRYING ON NEW CLOTHES

This is something I've came across too many times in my life and I also
believe that this combined larger breasts than average woman has, it's
self-esteem destroying combination. I can go to store and find that perfect
summer dress, not that I'm short and I already have to short the dress because
it's too long - I have to size it with my boobs. I hate the way clothing looks
when you can see clearly that it suits from everything else but not from there
where your boobs are hanging.
Thank goodness I know how to use sewing machine and I can short &
narrow my clothing from the parts it looks a bit too huge.
There was a point when I used to love hiding myself and buy tents to cover
up everything from the breast area, but thank goodness I don't do that anymore.
I'll try and try and try to find a good shirt or dress and then I'll just go with it.
I've never been a show off with these, so large cleavage is a huge no no for me too.

#4 WHEN PEOPLE ARE TALKING TO YOUR BOOBS
INSTEAD OF TALKING TO YOU

When I go to the bus, driver says hello to my boobs.
When I go to the store, cashier says hello to my boobs.
When I meet a new person, male particularly, he says hello to my boobs.
I've been "that girl who has huge boobs, you know her right?"
from the 6th grade.

#5 HEALTH ISSUES

My back of the neck is always stuck and now it's pretty much sore. My
posture is awful because these weight so much that my brawn can't hold
them. The fact that my back pain is surreal. The fact that last time I visited
a doctor about this he put me to go to the massage for three times and then
he said that I should do gymnastic exercises with a stick.
Yea, I tried - it doesn't help.
My self-esteem is low and I really don't feel good about myself.

There's just a few points, but I could think plenty of more too. It kind of
sucks, but I'm used to it. I'm here to play with the cards I was given, there's
not so many opportunities to go and choose new ones from the pack.

Have you ever had problems like this? 
Are you comfortable in your own body? 





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36 comments:

  1. Aww that must just be terrible to go through all that - I have tiny boobs which you also get picked on for!

    Candice | Beauty Candy Loves

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  2. I have small (close to no one exisitent) breasts.. And I like it that way cause they are easy to hide XD

    A lot of women complain about back pain caused by their huge breasts... It's odd that no one found a solution for that yet... Like... Floating bra cups that would hold them instead of you (bad example, but let me live in a fantasy of that...)

    Nice post tho, more people should read it, especially those talking to your boobs.

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    1. I could go to surgery if I had money for that but I don't, so all I can do is complain long enough and they maybe let me have one some day in the far faraway future.
      Feel free to share haha :D

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  3. Great post!
    Emma
    www.emmalovesfashion.com

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  4. Omg! Tell me about it! Feel your pain! Haha!

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  5. same here! sometimes I catch myself thinking "maybe a bit of silicone wouldn't harm." but I quickly change my mind.
    Jasmin I understand you, I have an aunt who went through a breast reduction surgery. I took care of her during the healing process and the differences in her posture and self esteem are huge. She decided to go for it because at some point she couldn't take her back pain. ��

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    1. Yea I'm getting sick of this pain too, at the moment I'm in that kind of a phase in my life where surgery is not an option - but I'll guess in year or two I'll have to make it happen!

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  6. Haha I can feel you - I have many friends struggling. As long you stay careful on your posture as well, you don't want to have early aged back pains.

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    1. Yea well it's a bit late for that :D

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  8. as a girl with F cups I feel your pain, in terms of bikinis it's difficult and bras cost a fortune nowadays i tend to opt for a sports bra just for the extra support. my back has been bad for years and my doctor does nothing to help i took to stretches and pilates to help. *le sigh* it's a cruel world

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    1. It sure is! I wish you all the best :-)

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  9. I have the total opposite problem, but there's some serious common ground here ahahaha- loved this post :)

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    1. Glad that you enjoyed reading this post :-)

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  10. I feel very comfortable with my body after all.
    But I know these problems. My ex boyfriend was always talking to my boobs. Oh God, my eyes are little bit higher, hello! And I hate trying new clothes. Usually I am buying online. And when package comes, it's always: damn, boobs...
    Clothes are always too small there!

    That's really good post, I think you should write more like this, I would read it!
    Sending big hug and inviting to me, Sunshine

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    1. Thanks ! I might :-) I'm glad you enjoyed reading the post:-)

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  11. Love the pics collage :)
    http://www.hiddengemstheblog.com

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    1. Thanks for reading the post :F

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  12. Actually I can't say that I have this problem, even it's oppositely, but I believe you, one of my friend used to have this matter, but it was only because of her weight, she went on a diet and now she sometimes complains about how small her boobs are. :D But it wasn't an untaught problem, so that makes a differ.

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    1. I wish I could get rid of these by just losing weight :D

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  13. I know exactly how you feel and go through this myself almost daily! What weird for me is that no one in my family has bigger boobs except for me. I don't know where I got it from, but I'd like them to do down a size please lol

    -Marie
    www.thatdarlinmarie.com

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  14. Try having big boon on a small body - like me. It look really weird on me. I hate my big boob. xx

    www.annanuttall.com

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    1. I have big boobs on a small body, otherwise I wouldn't be complaining about those here :D thanks for reading!

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  15. I can definitely relate to your post, I'm on the larger side as well and most often have a sore back because my posture is horrible. I really need to work on it on a daily basis. It's not fun having big ones sometimes with all of the downsides that go along with having them. I try to enjoy what I've been given. Nice post!


    ashmcc87.blogspot.co.uk

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  16. Now, you just have to write good things about have big boobs :3
    I have small ones and everybody ask if iv never wanted to have more but my posture is pretty bad and as you told, the weight could affect me more :3

    Abraços e beijos :D
    www.abelanaoafera.com.br

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    1. Hahaha, there's nothing good about big boobs :D in my opinion.

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  17. Loved this post! What annoys me is that if I wabt to buy bras or bikinis in my size I have to fork out a small fortune as most of the highstreet stores don't hold my size and as a student it sucks! The male attention you get from wearing gym clothes or any kind of clothes is also ridiculous! Totally feel your pain!
    Catriona...
    http://catrionalauder.blogspot.co.uk

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    1. Yea those costs soo freaking much!

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  18. Love this post - especially the part about people talking to your boob -_- you're not the only one! But I'm sorry to hear about your back pain :( love your blog too btw!

    thedizzyingheights.blogspot.co.uk

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    1. That is so annoying! Like, yo - my eyes are up here! :D and thanks, today's been a hell of a day for my back.. Nothing seem to help and can't feel comfortable anywhere.

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